EDITOR’S ARIA
WHEN I TEACH WRITING MEMOIR I emphasize how just describing your experience isn’t enough. You have to also include the universal truth your life story illustrates to appeal to the audience. Let’s see how well I practice what I preach.
I have to confess I never “understood” grandchildren. I could appreciate your “grands” and their photos. But I didn’t “get” them. I hoped to have my own but it seemed an event(s) that I would enjoy but wouldn’t really influence my life. WELL.
Now I have two. Olivia is 3 1/2 years old and Micah is on-the-way (October) and I am transformed. Nobody could’ve described the magic. Olivia says “Grandma” and my heart melts. I can’t wait to help with baby Micah, especially since Olivia was born during Covid and my time with her was necessarily restricted.
I am also aware that many of you don’t have children or grandchildren, so my experience, my magic, isn’t helpful. Could I offer this: I wonder if all of us could rediscover a sense of “magic” in our lives. By that I mean experiences that can’t be explained reasonably, that seem transcendent and uniquely inspiring, that have staying power in our imaginations beyond the initial experience.
Maybe for me it’s grandchildren, or kayaking and observing wildlife doing wildlife things that I’ve never seen before. Recently I came upon a merganser and her five babies and she immediately swam several feet away to dive, splash, and flap her wings, making a commotion. Mom Merganser succeeded in diverting my attention. When she realized I wasn’t a threat she rejoined her babies and they swam away. That scene has had staying power in my inner vision. Perhaps there is a poem to be got from it.
Maybe you find magic in other ways. I hope whenever you experience a bit of magic you can also mine its inspiration for a poem. When you do, send it in!